Tantra and Kama Sutra Sex Positions

A Modern Erotic Photo Interpretation By Al Link and Pala Copeland Photographs by Al Link ©4 Freedoms Relationship Tantra eBooks, December 2003. ISBN 0-9732873-4-9 Internet interactive edition with: • 131 pages • 100 erotic photographs and illustrations • and 303 hot links i Table of Contents About This eBook ............................................................... 1 List of Photographs ............................................................. 4 Introduction......................................................................... 8 Classic Texts and Modern Practices ............................... 8 Tantra & Kama Sutra Sex Positions ................................. 14 Man on Top................................................................... 14 Woman on Top ............................................................. 20 Face to Face .................................................................. 35 Sideways ....................................................................... 43 Sitting............................................................................ 54 Standing ........................................................................ 63 Opposites....................................................................... 66 Other Positions – Pregnancy......................................... 76 Shallow-Deep Thrusting Technique ............................. 81 Foreplay ............................................................................ 83 More Exotic Practices ....................................................... 93 Loving Body Discovery................................................ 93 Massage....................................................................... 102 Sexual Fire Breath....................................................... 110 BDSM Play ................................................................. 114 Sacred Space ............................................................... 125 Sacred Bathing ............................................................ 127 Oral Sex .......................................................................... 130 “69” ............................................................................. 130 Cunnilingus ................................................................. 131 Fellatio ........................................................................ 134 Watching ......................................................................... 138 Afterplay ......................................................................... 142 Summary and Conclusions ............................................. 144 Classic Love Texts.......................................................... 145 Kama Sutra.................................................................. 145 Ananga Ranga............................................................. 152 i ............................................................ 161 Ordering a CD-ROM Copy of this eBook .............................................. 164 Give Us Your Comments...........................................The Perfumed Garden ... 158 eBooks available from 4 Freedoms Relationship Tantra 159 eBooks by Al Link & Pala Copeland...................... 165 ii .............. 159 eBooks by Other Authors............ 155 Related Products ......... 153 Recommended Reading ...................... 157 About Authors Al Link and Pala Copeland ...................................................................................... Through these lovely photos we have endeavored to capture the emotional and energetic connection of Tantric sacred lovemaking rather than simply illustrate sexual positions and technique. Get the message of the book visually first and then go back for a second look. This is because a drawing can show people doing easily what no ordinary human being could ever actually do. Instead we comment on how and why the position is used. The lovers in these photos are experiencing and expressing something beautiful. this time reading the explanatory text with the photos. We suggest that the first thing you do is scroll through the photos without reading the accompanying text. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 1 . and we include useful information about sacred lovemaking practices. each of which is featured in large format on a single page for your viewing pleasure. don’t bother unless you see the position illustrated with a photograph. If you have ever browsed through a book illustrating sexual positions you will recall that some of the positions shown seem to be anatomically impossible. In this modern interpretation (not translation) of the classic love texts from India and Arabia we have omitted the redundant descriptions of each position that are commonly found in illustrated books of sex. These are real people in real bodies. This book’s message is that you can have what they are showing you. Probably they have bodies that look a lot like yours.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland About This eBook We have included 100 erotic color photographs and illustrations. When selecting sexual positions to try. All of our sexual positions are illustrated with photographs. Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland There are some sexual positions. young. as an advanced. including all the delicious foreplay and the deep emotional connection of afterplay. massage. BDSM (bondage/discipline/sadism/masochism) play. Almost every endeavor that requires a discipline of body and mind has an extreme variation. loving body discovery. we have included sections with commentary on those topics. creating a sacred space and sacred bathing. Since our definition of sex goes far beyond sexual intercourse. In addition we have added hot links to a number of published printed versions of the classic texts so if you wish to read and learn more you can locate those books easily. you don’t have to be an athlete. in various stages of physical fitness and health. and with some selectivity. Most of the positions illustrated here are suitable for lovers of all ages. Also included are illustrated sections on oral sex (cunnilingus and fellatio). physically flexible. or perfectly fit and healthy to use this manual. Practitioners of Extreme Tantra Sexual Yoga utilize lovemaking positions as they would other Hatha Yoga postures. require the lovers to be exceedingly acrobatic. rather than as an ecstatic sacred lovemaking practice. This eBook is revised and updated continuously with new contents and refreshed hot links. and very strong. We have eliminated these extreme postures from this manual. we © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 2 . even though ‘doable’. These positions appeal to practitioners of “extreme” Tantra Sexual Yoga. disciplined physical meditation technique. If you are the first person to send an email alerting us to a link that is not working. In other words. Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland will send you a FREE replacement version electronically by email as soon as it is ready. This document is also available on a Compact Disc (CDROM). © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 3 Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland List of Photographs 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. 11. 12. 13. 14. 15. 16. 17. 18. 19. 20. 21. 22. 23. Yin /Yang (illustration) Man on Top – “Missionary” (variation – knees up) Man on Top – “Missionary” (variation – legs over shoulders) Man on Top – “Missionary” (variation – man standing) Man on Top – “Missionary” (variation – man supports his weight off the woman) Woman on Top – “Tender Surrender” (variation – lying face to face) Woman on Top – “Crouching Tigress” (variation – full front saddle ride) Woman on Top – “Crouching Tigress” (variation – full front saddle ride -2) Woman on Top – “Crouching Tigress” (variation - partial side-saddle ride) Woman on Top – “Crouching Tigress” (variation – Side-saddle) Woman on Top – “Sleeping Dragon” Woman on Top – “Crouching Tigress” (variation – Grasshopper) Woman on Top – “The Queen’s Ecstasy” Woman on Top – “Slipslide” Woman on Top – “Water Saddle” Woman on Top – “Backsaddle” Face to Face – “Grasshopper” (variation sitting) Face to Face – “Happy Capture” Face to Face – “Heaven and Earth” Face to Face – “The Lift” Face to Face – “The Lift” (variation – full) Face to Face – “One Crutch” Face to Face – “Two Crutches” 4 © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland 24. 25. 26. 27. 28. 29. 30. 31. 32. 33. 34. 35. 36. 37. 38. 39. 40. 41. 42. 43. 44. 45. 46. 47. 48. 49. 50. 51. 52. 53. Sideways – “Spoons” Sideways – “The Lover’s Scissors” Grounding (illustration) Sideways – “The Lover’s Scissors” Sideways – “The Lover’s Scissors” – 2 Sideways – “The Lover’s Scissors” – 3 “Yab Yum” (variation – classic lotus) “Yab Yum” (variation - kneeling) “Yab Yum” (variation – sitting in a chair) “Yab Yum” (variation – “see saw”) “Yab Yum” (variation – “full see saw”) “Yab Yum” (variation – kneeling - 2) “Yab Yum” (variation – kneeling - 3) “Yab Yum” (variation – sitting in a chair) Standing – “Climbing the Tree” Standing – “Clinging To The Tree” Opposites – “Dog” Opposites – “Dog” – 2 Opposites – “Dog” (variation – pulling on the reins) Opposites – “Backslide” Opposites – “SeeSaw” Opposites – “Gorilla” – (variation – pulling on the reins) Opposites – “Gorilla” (variation – masked) Other Positions – Pregnancy – “The Cradle”(variation – “L”) Other Positions – Pregnancy – “The Cradle” (variation II) Other Positions – Pregnancy – “The Cradle” (variation II - 2) Other Positions – Pregnancy – “Happy Capture” (variation – “T”) Shallow / Deep Thrust (illustration) Conversation with wine Conversation with wine – 2 5 © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 83. 66. 68. 76. 63. 69. 56. 73. 62. 85. 84. 55. 64. 67. 78. 75. 61. 71. 82.Eating Out Massage Massage – 2 Erotic Massage Erotic Massage – 2 Sexual Fire Breath Sexual Fire Breath – 2 BDSM Play Torture Teasing Blindfolds and tie-ups Sweet surrender my darling Dark stranger Paddle Play Dominatrix Golden Showers Beginner BDSM Kit Holy Ground Honoring the God and Goddess Merging in the ocean of consciousness Washing away cares of the world Serving one another 69 6 © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 . 79. 74. 89. 65. 81. 60. 57. 88. 58. 87. Dancing Kissing Undressing Undressing – 2 Dressing Up Dressing Up – 2 Lotions.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland 54. 72. 77. 59. 70. creams and powders Loving Body Discovery Loving Body Discovery – 2 Loving Body Discovery – 3 Loving Body Discovery – 4 Loving Body Discovery – 5 Loving Body Discovery – 6 Loving Body Discovery – 7 Loving Body Discovery . 86. 80. Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland 90. 98. 94. 92. 93. 95. 91. 96. Eating cotton candy Sweet copulins pheromones Clitoral Kissing Please Sir. may I have more? Treat with trust Eye Candy Show me what you like Carry on while I take a rest I get all wet watching you please yourself In the glow… Thank you my darling © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 7 . 99. 100. 97. At the same time there’s a spiritual hunger running rampant through the land. a celebratory dance of life’s great force. We use and abuse sex for everything from selling soap to making or breaking political leaders. Suggesting that you can find your way to God through sexual activity has been a bit like suggesting you can eat your way to thin-ness or fuck your way to virginity. sex for oblivion. from pagan to fundamentalist. We’ve been taught that pursuing sexual pleasure. sex for profit. Partaking in wildly passionate sex and seeking an intensely spiritual life just haven’t been part of the same curriculum. Well why not unite the two? Bring sex and spirit together and find your magic! The idea’s definitely not a new one. It’s an either / or situation.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Introduction Classic Texts and Modern Practices The term “sacred sex” may seem somewhat of an oxymoron in western society. We’re all screaming for substance. As a society we’re obsessed with sex. To be a highly spiritual person is to be essentially sexless. is slowly gaining ground in North America. In part it’s a lustily healthful obsession. finding spiritual union through a sexual one. enjoyable as that may be. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 8 . is at best hedonistic and at worst damaging for our souls. But that view is changing. The ache for meaning stretches from radical through traditional—from new age spiritual to longestablished religious. Our psyches are certainly ripe for it. but much of it flounders in darkness and neurosis – sex for power. The concept of sacred sex. a contradiction in terms. Today. Tantra. going against the laws of nature and our bodies. probably the most commonly known form of sacred sexuality. these works were greeted with a largely hostile reception. During the 19th century Tantric writings were introduced to the west by British scholars and travelers. Based on a belief that the union of male and female principles(yin and yang. Tantric practices were condemned as “orgiastic rites too terrible for civilized men to hear”. has its home in branches of the Hindu and Buddhist cultures of India and Tibet. symbols and chanting. much of this cult-like perception of Tantra persists. translator of three classic texts that explain and illustrate the art of love with considerable emphasis on sexual lovemaking positions: the Kama Sutra and Ananga Ranga from India and the Perfumed Garden from Arabia. foremost among them Sir Richard Burton. But perhaps an even bigger block is the absolute necessity of retaining your aroused sexual energy internally and the accompanying emphasis for men on not ejaculating. The practice of arresting your sexual fever and turning it in and upward rather than allowing it to flow out and down may seem abnormal and contrived.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Ritualized sex has been an acknowledged sacred pathway in Eastern philosophies for several thousand years. and sexual positions combined with prayerful thought to reach the heights of godly bliss. despite our more open attitudes to sexuality. yab and yum) will lead to enlightenment. After all. This directly challenges our culture’s sexual ideal of simultaneous genital orgasm. Not surprising given the surface prudery of the time. breath control. the powerful release of a © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 9 . traditional Tantra uses a complex series of sounds. and mystical signs. Partly this may be due to traditional Tantra’s highly ritualized religious aspects – worship and identification with particular gods and goddesses. visualizations. is part of the new sacred sex (or neo-Tantra) that’s been emerging in the last 20 years. not just our venerated Big O of the genitals. Whole body orgasm. and specific techniques of breath and muscle control – and adds an assortment of other goodies. meaning nonreligious and non-dogmatic. The essential approach is spiritual.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland “regular” orgasm feels so very good. As you learn to open to yourself. While learning to withhold ejaculation is part of the process there’s also a more relaxed. Reichian bodywork. Jungian concepts. You can take your time learning the delights that come with delaying or eliminating ejaculation as you explore the many other ingredients of sacred sex practice – emotional and mental as well as physical. you naturally open to others around you. more fluid perspective that allows for personal preference and ability. a gradual shift away from a strong focus on semen retention to a slower approach of gently learning to move all that wild sexual energy around inside you. Neo-tantra begins with much from her traditional parent – for example. creative visualization and dynamic meditation can all be part of the loose and joyous eclectic meld. to your own inner lover. aromatherapy. But sacred sex goes far beyond the bedroom. helping partners open fully to each other in trust and love through all facets of their relationship. the precept that sexual union can lead to transcendence. Your relationship itself becomes a vehicle for spiritual growth and personal awareness. You © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 10 . elbows or toes. why should anyone voluntarily pass this by for the promise of unknown ecstasy? However. acupressure. And playfulness is woven into the fabric of loving – laughter and lust come hand in hand to the true lovers’ bed. through eyes. becomes a real possibility. Balancing Feminine (Yin) and Masculine (Yang) Energies YIN YANG In both Taoist (China) and Tantric (India) traditions there are two opposite yet complementary forces at play in the universe. you become all around healthier. moist. and nourishing. and what you’re doing with them. dry. Yin represents the feminine: cool. receptive. Your emotions become more stable and more real. As a celebration of life. Like most spiritual paths. Women are mostly yin. what the Taoists call Yin and Yang.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland begin to understand that surrender does not mean submission or loss of self. sacred sex teaches the importance of conscious awareness. It does so in a context of celebration and letting go into the sensual aspects of living. men are mostly yang—what © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 11 . Your mental capacity increases and your physical health improves as you discover that your body is indeed the temple of your soul. but rather a loving expansion to something that is much greater than you are. of being totally “in” your actions. sacred sex teaches a discipline of the mind and body. so that sacred sex is a paradoxical combination of mastery and spontaneity. and fiery. By focusing attention on your body and your mind. Yang represents the masculine: active. wand of light. you share and thus strengthen and balance your masculine and feminine energies. and pleasurable. such as golden rod. jade stalk. is an extraordinarily effective. Using such terminology is generally perceived to be more respectful. tangled garden. There are hundreds of other terms commonly used. Genital Sizes – Mix and Match The Kama Sutra. as is the Lovers’ Scissors. position for exchanging and balancing sexual energy with your lover. Certainly the language commonly heard on the streets such as cock and cunt. sensual and romantic. Male – Lingam: Hare (small) – Bull (medium) – Horse (large) Female – Yoni: Deer (small) – Mare (medium) – Elephant (large) According to Vatsyayana (and common sense) matches of equal size are ideal.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland popular author John Grey calls Venus and Mars—but within each woman there is some masculine energy and within each man some feminine. Vagina is yoni. Terminology Most Tantric sacred lovemaking texts substitute more poetic terms to refer to the male and female sexual anatomy. honey pot and secret cave. In Tantric lovemaking. Carl Jung called these forces animus and anima. but lovers can manage the other © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 12 . Penis is lingam. seems by comparison crude and disrespectful. by Vatsyayana classifies the lingam and yoni according to size. The YabYum posture. allows for maximum penetration • Woman on Top – “Crouching Tigress” (variation – “Sidesaddle”) – allows for the skillful use of PC squeezing by the woman • Opposites – “Backslide” – provides an ideal angle for stimulation of the G-Spot When the lingam is large and the yoni is small try the following positions.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland combinations quite nicely. Certain positions are helpful when there is a mismatch of genital sizes. When the lingam is small and the yoni large try the following positions. • Man on Top – “Missionary” (variation – legs over shoulders) . • Man on Top – “Missionary” (variation – man supports his weight off the woman) – allows for holding back from maximum penetration • Woman on Top – “Tender Surrender” (variation – lying face to face) – the lady is in charge of penetration and thrusting • Face to Face – “One Crutch” – allows for holding back from maximum penetration • Sideways – “The Lover’s Scissors” – penetration is not deep and thrusting is relaxed • Other Positions – Pregnancy – “The Cradle” (variation II) – shallow penetration and relaxed thrusting © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 13 . by Vatsyayana.” Love Teachings of Kama Sutra. then spend most of your time underneath. which is passed to the partner on the bottom. If one of you is tired. allowing a subtlety. or recovering from an illness or injury. Take turns sending and receiving by switching top and bottom throughout your sacred loving.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Tantra & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Man on Top The person who is on top during active lovemaking generates the most energy. Man on Top – “Missionary” (variation – knees up) “It is a gentle forward stroke which may be varied for depth and speed. rhythm and spontaneity. translated by Indra Sinha © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 14 . tickle and scratch him. When he raises his body this way it allows for both lovers to caress and fondle other body parts during intercourse. or harmonize your breath and gaze into each other’s eyes—all are methods for circulating hot sexual energy between you. The woman may fondle the man’s nipples. She may also raise her legs and hook them over her lover’s shoulders. or he may reach down to stimulate her clitoris while intercourse continues.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland The classic “missionary” position and its many variations is the most common lovemaking position. Generally the woman lies flat on her back with the man on top of her. The man may lie with his full weight on her or he may prop his body up with one or both arms. For example the man may fondle or suck the woman’s breasts. Variations include the woman raising one or both knees or lifting one or both legs high into the air. You may explore kissing during this position. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 15 . and so on. like an opening bud. Depending upon size the penis may reach all the way to her cervix at the back of her vaginal canal. by Vatsyayana. clasping her knees tightly to her breasts.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Man on Top – “Missionary” (variation – legs over shoulders) “She draws her limbs together. This position is highly effective when the lingam is small and the yoni large. which can be very erotically stimulating for her if the lingam just teasingly touches her cervix. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 16 . this position is not recommended if the lingam is large and the yoni is small because it may be painful for the woman if the man pushes too hard against her cervix. offered up for pleasure. However. translated by Indra Sinha In this variation with her legs over your shoulders she presents her yoni fully ripe and open for maximum penetration.” Love Teachings of Kama Sutra. her yoni. linga enters yoni. by Vatsyayana. the pumping action can be particularly vigorous. This is most suitable when the couple has already generated considerable erotic passion. when both lovers desire a harder. her feet placed either side of your waist. we suggest that hard fucking can be as holy as any meditation. translated by Indra Sinha In this “missionary” variation with the man standing. We invite God and Goddess into our bed when we are ‘fucking each © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 17 . you rain hard blows upon her body. Don’t misunderstand. quiet and spiritual one. animal approach rather than a more still.” Love Teachings of Kama Sutra.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Man on Top – “Missionary” (variation – man standing) “With raised thighs. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 18 . for example in one of the variations of the YabYum positions illustrated below. Your intention is what makes your sex spiritual. not the position or activity you are engaged in.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland other’s brains out’ as well as when we are joined in a prayerful meditative posture. while many men report that they can last longer without ejaculating because they are focusing most of their attention on pleasing their female partner instead of focusing on their own genital stimulation. there is room for him to reach her clitoris with his free hand.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Man on Top – “Missionary” (variation – man supports his weight off the woman) In the “missionary position” when the man supports his weight off the woman’s body with one arm. She will benefit from the simultaneous thrusting action of intercourse and skilled manipulation of her deliciously sensitive clitoris. This position works wonders when the lingam is large and the yoni is small. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 19 . Many women report that they can experience deep vaginal orgasms with this technique. making himself vulnerable to her.” Love Teachings of Kama Sutra. every time she bends to kiss your lips her nipples pierce your chest.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Tantra & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Woman on Top Woman on Top – “Tender Surrender” (variation – lying face to face) “She climbs upon you. translated by Indra Sinha Both men and women may have difficulty opening their hearts and allowing themselves to be emotionally vulnerable and transparent. you may begin to appreciate the benefits of complete surrender to one another in lovemaking. the flowers dropping from her tousled hair. by Vatsyayana. her giggles turning to gasps. but heart opening seems most challenging for men. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 20 . In this woman-on-top position the man must surrender to his lady. Once you understand that control is the enemy of ecstasy. Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland When the lady is on top. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 21 . she gives more energy than she takes. This is particularly beneficial if the man is recovering from an illness or injury or is in need of rest. In the variation shown here. This position is also very effective when the lingam is large and the yoni is small as the lady is in charge of penetration and thrusting. the lovers are able to harmonize their breath while they gaze lovingly into each other’s eyes. A combination of harmonized breathing and eye gazing is one of the easiest ways for lovers to circulate their hot sexual energy. translated by Indra Sinha © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 22 . swaying upon your body as though she were riding on a seesaw. by Vatsyayana.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Woman on Top – “Crouching Tigress” (variation – full front saddle ride) “She now swings her hips in wide circles and makes figures-of-eight.” Love Teachings of Kama Sutra. In relationships where one or the other partner is particularly dominant.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Woman on Top – “Crouching Tigress” (variation – full front saddle ride) “If long lovemaking exhausts you before your lover has reached her orgasm. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 23 . translated by Indra Sinha The lover on top is in a dominant position.” Love Teachings of Kama Sutra. by Vatsyayana. It is most desirable that in Tantric sacred lovemaking the man and woman take turns initiating and receiving. an excellent way to “give up the lead” is to allow the lover who is normally less active and more passive. to assume the top position (at least sometimes). you should allow her to roll you over on your back and sit astride you. taking initiative. by Vatsyayana. giving maximum stimulation to her G-Spot.partial side-saddle ride) “She cups and lifts her buttocks with her palms. translated by Indra Sinha This position is particularly desirable if the woman has a small yoni and the man has a large lingam. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 24 . and digs in her heels besides her hips. because the woman is on top she can select exactly the right depth. spreads wide her thighs. which can bring about deep vaginal or ejaculatory orgasms.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Woman on Top – “Crouching Tigress” (variation . Also. while you caress her breasts. speed and angle of penetration.” Love Teachings of Kama Sutra. you arching your body to help her. she revolves her hips so that your penis circles deep within her yoni.” Love Teachings of Kama Sutra. holding it inside her for a hundred heartbeats.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Woman on Top – “Crouching Tigress” (variation – “Sidesaddle”) “She uses the Mare's Trick. squeezing and stroking it. Drawing up her feet. gripping your penis with her yoni's vice. translated by Indra Sinha © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 25 . by Vatsyayana. Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland This position is excellent when the lingam is small and the yoni is large. particularly if the lady’s PC muscles are well toned and capable of gripping her lover’s lingam tightly. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 26 . lovers build to one peak of sexual arousal. rest again.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Woman on Top – “Sleeping Dragon” “When her passion has ebbed. translated by Indra Sinha This woman-on-top position allows both lovers to rest between rounds of more active lovemaking. rest. and so on. By building to multiple peaks of sexual arousal (six. resume more active lovemaking that builds to another peak of sexual arousal. nine. she should rest. As the lovers lie still it is the perfect time to whisper adoring words into each other’s ears. In Tantric sacred loving over a period of hours. or dissolve into the ecstasy of silence. bending forward to lay her forehead upon yours without disturbing your yoked bodies: it won't be long before desire stirs again. lovers accumulate an intense charge of hot sexual energy. by Vatsyayana. a dozen or more).” Love Teachings of Kama Sutra. which © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 27 . Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland they circulate through their individual bodies and back and forth between each other. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 28 . © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 29 . The man may or may not ejaculate. allowing the joyful experience of mutual orgasm. grip your lover's waist and pull her on to you. your loins continuously leaping together with a sound like the flapping of elephants' ears.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Woman on Top – “Crouching Tigress” (variation – “Grasshopper”) “Sitting erect. if he has learned the mastery necessary to separate his orgasm from ejaculation. Use it most effectively when you have built to an intense energy charge and wish to come together. by Vatsyayana.” Love Teachings of Kama Sutra. translated by Indra Sinha The outline of the lovers in this position resembles the shape of a grasshopper. as is his desire. settling upon her lover to the perfect depth of penetration and angle.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Woman on Top – “The Queen’s Ecstasy” The lady. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 30 . moving at exactly the correct speed. squirts her juicy nectar upon the wand of light offered so obligingly by her warrior of love. having positioned herself perfectly. she scratches. translated by Indra Sinha The lovers have moved quickly in a swoon of uncontrollable passion joining their flesh together in the dance of love. by Vatsyayana. fastens her teeth in your neck. they ravish each other’s eager bodies. exhausted. Not having taken even enough time to disrobe completely. comes instantly with the first penetration and goes on to build from one amazing orgasmic rush.” Love Teachings of Kama Sutra. The lady overwhelmed with her lusty desire. doing unto you what you've often done unto her. her head.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Woman on Top – “Slipslide” “As her hips begin to churn. bobs ever faster. each more intense than the last. until she falls forward. but with her consciousness flying free of any limitations of the physical © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 31 . flung back. pummels you with small fists. From this vantage point her soul essence merges with that of her lover. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 32 . transcending any boundaries that formerly separated them.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland body. Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Woman on Top – “Water Saddle” “Within the cave of her thighs you sit rotating your hips like a black bee. preparing for the coming hours of adoring devotion to each other as god and goddess. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 33 . translated by Indra Sinha In a sacred bathing ritual the lovers.” Love Teachings of Kama Sutra. by Vatsyayana. wash away all the cares of the world. In this “backsaddle” position the lady straddles her man. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 34 . which can only be perfected with long practice. When she uses it.” Love Teachings of Kama Sutra. A wonderfully erotic variation is when she leans forward far enough to suck on his toes while she rides her loving stallion bareback. your lover traps and milks your penis with her vagina. a woman should cease to kiss her lover and simply hold the lock. facing his feet. by Vatsyayana.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Woman on Top – “Backsaddle” “Like a mare cruelly gripping a stallion. translated by Indra Sinha Positions in which parts of the lover’s bodies are paired with their opposites will build sexual excitement and emotional passion very quickly. Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Tantra & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Face to Face Face to face positions with similar body parts facing or touching (mouths kissing, hearts together, hands linked) encourage emotional union and circulation of hot sexual energy. In these positions the sexual/spiritual energy builds more slowly, compared with positions that bring together opposite parts of the body. Use face to face positions when you want to open your hearts to deep connection, or when you wish to focus attention on circulating hot sexual energy between you, rather than continue to build to a higher sexual charge. Face to Face – “Grasshopper” (variation - sitting) “Sitting face to face in bed, her breasts pressed tight against your chest, let each of you lock heels behind the other's waist, and lean back clasping one another's wrists.” Love Teachings of Kama Sutra, by Vatsyayana, translated by Indra Sinha © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 35 Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland “God and Goddes, Father in heaven, Mother of Earth, won’t you please join with us in our loving embrace? Bless us with your presence, your light and your love. We honor you by joining together in ecstatic union. We surrender our hearts to each other and our souls to you Creators of all kind, beautiful and innocent things.” © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 36 Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Face to Face – “Happy Capture” “Indrani draws up both her knees until they nuzzle the curves of her breasts; her feet find her lover's armpits.” Love Teachings of Kama Sutra, by Vatsyayana, translated by Indra Sinha “Have your way with me, my lord. My heart belongs to you. My body is for your pleasure. Fill me with your wand of light. Transport me to heaven with your touch.” © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 37 raise them. you sit between her parted knees. catch hold of her breasts. masculine and feminine. translated by Indra Sinha In this position the man reaches up to Heaven with his expanded masculine consciousness. hook her feet over your thighs. and the woman touches the Earth with her feminine heart emotionally wide open. thought and emotion. and enjoy her.” Love Teachings of Kama Sutra. Yin and Yang merge in union to become one.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Face to Face – “Heaven and Earth” “She lies flat on her back. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 38 . body and soul. Heaven and Earth. by Vatsyayana. Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Face to Face – “The Lift” In this face-to-face position the warrior of love can penetrate his lady’s ripe mango yoni with in-out strokes. rotating movements. Alternatively with “the lift” (as with positions where the lady sits upon the man’s lingam). he can use his upper body strength to move her about on his erection (so that neither lover is actually moving their hips in a thrusting action). or deep/shallow thrusting. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 39 . Remember that the G-Spot does not welcome stimulation until the lady is very highly aroused and has come very close to or has actually experienced a clitoral orgasm. the man can properly stimulate her G-Spot with his penetration. To extend the time spent in this position add one or several pillows under the lady’s hips.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Face to Face – “The Lift” (variation – full) With the angle of penetration possible in the “full lift” position. The GSpot is located one or two inches on the upper wall inside the vaginal canal. If you were looking at the yoni as if it were a clock. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 40 . the G-Spot is located between the 11:00 and 1:00 positions. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 41 .Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Face to Face – “One Crutch” The crutch position is excellent for rubbing the lingam directly against the clitoris. while at the same time penetration may caress the G-spot for a double delight. This position is good when the lingam is small and the yoni is large. Clasp her neck and make love to her. by Vatsyayana. Both juicy caves welcome their lord’s loving attention.” Love Teachings of Kama Sutra.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Face to Face – “Two Crutches” “Catch hold of her two feet. raising them till they press upon her breasts and her legs form a rough circle. translated by Indra Sinha This position is suitable for penetration of either the yoni or the fully surrendered back door. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 42 . slower. such as opposites. accelerating your consciousness. Sideways – “Spoons” © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 43 . energy moves freely from the lower chakra centers in the genitals. When the heart opens.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Tantra & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Sideways Sideways positions are generally well suited to circulating and sharing sexual / spiritual energy between lovers. and crown. and solar plexus through it to the higher chakra centers in the throat. Many lovers find that they feel their hot sexual energy moving most easily during times of relative stillness. belly. they can be powerfully emotional. Although perhaps less stimulating than other positions. These positions tend to be gentler. and preparing you for the gift of ecstasy. third eye. You may discover that simply opening your heart accomplishes what sexual technique alone could never do—cleansing your doors of perception. and quieter. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 44 . illness or exhaustion. this posture is also ideal. Intercourse while in the spoons position is perfect when the man is larger than the woman. If either partner is recovering from injury. as penetration is not as deep and thrusting not as fierce.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland This wonderful posture allows you to rest after an exhausting dance of love. In it lovers may sleep peacefully through the remainder of the long night. gently turning together from side to side. It is especially suited for lovemaking during pregnancy as there is no weight or pressure upon the new life growing in the lady’s womb. translated by Indra Sinha The “lovers’ scissors” is our morning meditation together. draw taut and slowly relax in the gentle rhythm of linga and yoni. by Vatsyayana. entwined in yours like tendrils of fragrant jasmine creeper. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 45 . Although there is genital connection. the “lover’s scissors” is not actually considered a sexual position. It is for balancing your masculine and feminine energies and connecting emotionally and spiritually with your lover. but rather a loving energy meditation. holding it for anywhere from 5-30 minutes depending upon how much time we have. this meditation is not intercourse for sexual arousal—there is no active thrusting or drive to complete an orgasm. Used in this way. We sleep nude. and immediately upon waking assume this loving posture.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Sideways – “The Lovers’ Scissors” “Her limbs.” Love Teachings of Kama Sutra. but you can do it at any time of day or as a meditation at bedtime. usually curled up like spoons. you will relate to each other more respectfully. You will notice that its effects are cumulative.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Experiment with doing this every day for several weeks and then not doing it for a few days. important and powerful. You will also have greater personal resilience and resources for dealing with all the stresses and challenges of living. When you do the exercise daily. appreciatively. When we skip it for a while (more than 4 days in a row) we can start to get antsy and even a little snarly with each other! © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 46 . and lovingly. we are calm and loving toward each other. When we do this regularly. extending out from your genitals. Your heads are apart and your genitals are connected. Place your hands on each other’s heart.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Lover’s Scissors Meditation Instructions • The man lies on his side and the woman on her back. but do not allow your mind to intrude with thoughts unrelated to your loving connection. Her other leg goes between his legs. • You may occasionally tighten your PC muscles to help focus your attention on your genitals and to move energy up from them. add these more advanced elements to your connection • Focus on the energy connection between you. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 47 . connected. • Bring energy from your genitals up to your heart. if you wish look into each other’s eyes. • • • • • • • When you have some experience working with your sexual energy. This is the “scissors”. The key is to be able to stay relaxed. • Allow energy to flow from your heart to the top of your head then down to your eyes and through your eyes into your lover. Soft entry works fine—use saliva or lubricant as needed. Breathe slowly and deeply—harmonize your breathing. comfortable and still. Be silent. The woman’s leg closest to her lover goes over top of his hip. Slide penis into vagina. If you drift off into sleep that is fine. Simply allow yourself to BE in the experience. You are at a 90-degree angle to each other. • Allow your heart to open to your lover. send it to whatever part of your body may need healing. because you have accumulated a high-energy charge do grounding. anxious or hyperactive. • Or. If you become “spaced out”. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 48 . • Or.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland • Direct energy that comes from your lover in through your eyes down to your genitals. put it in your belly chakra for later use. Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Grounding Exercise Grounding is a very effective process for calming and stabilizing. Grounding connects you with the earth, carrying overpowering negative energies down and away much like a lightning rod. There are many methods for grounding. Try this one daily, as often as you think of it. Even if you don’t “feel” anything while you are doing it notice the difference grounding makes to your overall sense of well-being. Grounding is also an excellent practice whenever you are feeling sexually “wound-up”: • • • Sitting or standing, with your body relaxed, take a slow breath in through your nose. Gently exhale through your mouth. Focus your attention on the top of your head (your crown chakra). 49 © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland • • • • • • • Picture a funnel on the top of your head through which vital energy from the cosmos flows into your body—this is powerful, masculine, active energy. As this sun and sky energy travels down through your body it gives you strength and vitality. As it passes it also gathers up any negative energies you may be feeling—anger, lethargy, hyperactivity, grief, anxiety, fear. Now focus your attention on your genitals (your root chakra) and picture a funnel there—with the small end of the funnel inside your body and the mouth of the funnel pointing down to the earth. Allow the energy to flow through your lower funnel, away and down into the center of Mother Earth, taking with it all your tension; leaving vigor and calm in its wake. Continue to visualize energy flowing in through your head, down through your body and out into the earth—bringing vitality and serenity and taking away stress. Do this for a minimum of 3 minutes at a time. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 50 Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Sideways – “The Lovers’ Scissors” For ending lovemaking while you still have desire, which means the man has not ejaculated, use the “lovers’ scissors” position. When a man ejaculates this usually ends the lovemaking, but if you end the lovemaking without a male ejaculation you must decide how and when to stop some other way. When we join in this position it allows our passion and hot sexual energy to subside naturally and comfortably, so that we can drift off to sleep, or after a timely interval, get up and resume activities for household or work. This position is also excellent when the lingam is large and the yoni is small. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 51 If there are no erectile dysfunction issues. First wet the penis and vagina with saliva (which is very slippery) or a lubricant (preferably water-based or silicone-based). may require a “soft entry” if the man does not have a firm erection. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 52 . the man will usually gain a partial or full erection very quickly once soft entry is accomplished. Soft entry means the man or woman inserts the relatively soft penis into the vagina using their hands.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Sideways – “The Lover’s Scissors” Assuming the “lovers’ scissors” position immediately upon awakening. we do not progress to more active lovemaking with kissing. But sometimes the passion and hot sexual energy build in such a way that our lovemaking becomes more active and leads on to mutual orgasms. thrusting. Both options are sublime. switching into other lovemaking positions. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 53 . etc.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Sideways – “The Lovers’ Scissors” Normally when we are using the “lovers’ scissors” position as a morning energy connection meditation. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 54 .Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Tantra & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Sitting The classic Tantric lovemaking position is the YabYum (father / mother. yin / yang) position. Use it for moving and exchanging sexual energy when you are at a peak of sexual arousal and want to ride the wave of bliss rather than to continue building more hot sexual energy or end the lovemaking with the man ejaculating. We sometimes refer to it as the yum-yum position. with his partner on top of his lap. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 55 . you can easily roll from this position into man or woman on top or face-to-face on your sides while still maintaining your genital connection. in the lotus position. You may support his thighs and back with pillows. When you are ready to resume more active lovemaking.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland “YabYum” (variation – classic lotus) The man sits cross-legged. kneeling) If the man is not comfortable in the lotus position supporting the full weight of his goddess.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland “YabYum” (variation . the woman may kneel on him supporting some of her own weight with her thighs. It is important that you find a variation that you can maintain comfortably for as long as you would like. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 56 . Once you are snugly connected. look into each other's eyes. be still. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 57 . the man may sit on the edge of the bed or on a straight-backed chair with his legs out in front of him and feet on the floor. connect your mouths and tongues with a kiss. harmonize your breathing. or touch third eye points.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland “YabYum” (variation – sitting in a chair) If the lotus position is too difficult. and ultimately use it to make a direct connection with the Divine.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland “YabYum” (variation – “see saw”) Your attention at this point is on working with the life force energy that has been built up during active lovemaking. Try to exchange your sexual / spiritual energy with your lover. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 58 . Do some PC squeezing (Kegels) to help you circulate the hot sexual energy away from your genitals up through your body through the higher chakra centers. chanting or "toning" together to focus the energy.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland “YabYum” (variation – “full see saw”) Experiment with making sound at each chakra point. You will be amazed at how beautiful the sound is when you are working with such a high sexual charge of life force energy. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 59 . Alternatively.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland “YabYum” (variation . Another variation is to run your hands in flowing motions up his spine. Experiment! Recommended reading: Acupressure for Lovers: Secrets of Touch for Increasing Intimacy. Place your left hand at the base of her spine and your right hand on her back at the heart center. place your left hand at the base of his spine and with your right press the “Wind Mansion” acupoints at the junction of skull and neck.kneeling) Hands help to concentrate and circulate the energy as well. by Michael Reed Gach © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 60 . Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland “YabYum” ( variation . © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 61 . speed up your breathing and undulate your bodies to build the charge again and move it up. there is little actual thrusting happening so the man is able to last longer. Some delightful yoni squeezing will help him to maintain an erection without going over into ejaculation.kneeling) When your sexual excitement begins to subside. Even with rapid rocking and breathing. Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland “YabYum” ( variation – sitting in a chair) Some lovers also enjoy the YabYum position as a way to tune into each other early on in their lovemaking. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 62 . Then they return to it when the sexual charge is high. back her against a wall.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Tantra & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Standing Standing positions are not usually held for long periods of time because of the physical strength required. Standing – “Climbing the Tree” “You catch one of her knees firmly in your hand and stand making love with her while her hands explore and caress your body.” Love Teachings of Kama Sutra. lift one or both legs and ravish her. They are ideal for lovemaking “quickies” including when you are being discretely naughty in some semi-public place such as a washroom at an art gallery. translated by Indra Sinha When passion flares. by Vatsyayana. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 63 . “Is there such a thing as a Tantra quickie?” Of course there is. your lady twines her thighs around yours.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Standing – “Clinging To The Tree” “As you lean against the wall. translated by Indra Sinha We are sometimes asked.” Love Teachings of Kama Sutra. making love very passionately. by Vatsyayana. and clasps your neck. locks her feet to your knees. but the man does not usually © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 64 . No couple can find several hours every time they make love. so the quickie is a prelude to more extended lovemaking later. but be sure that quickies are not your usual approach to sex or it will get boring and predictable. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 65 .Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland ejaculate. mouth to groin) build erotic excitement and generate a high sexual charge rapidly. All opposite positions are useful for any man with difficulty getting and maintaining an erection. because they are so arousing. head to feet.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Tantra & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Opposites Postures that combine opposites (rear entry. All opposite positions are to be avoided by the man who ejaculates prematurely. Opposites – “Dog” © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 66 . Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland “If the lady. by Vatsyayana. and you enjoy her from behind. translated by Indra Sinha © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 67 . raising her buttocks high. lays breasts. goes on all fours. rutting as though you'd lost all human nature…” Love Teachings of Kama Sutra. eager for love. arms and forehead to the carpet. and you guide your penis into her yoni humping her back like a doe. In the “dog” position penetration can be into the yoni or into the anus. as the lovers desire.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Opposites – “Dog” “Doggie Style” is probably the most common rear entry position. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 68 . and tease her back door open with your gentlest coaxing manner. by Vatsyayana. Of course you know to also use lots of lubricant. translated by Indra Sinha Many a lady will swoon.” Love Teachings of Kama Sutra.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Opposites – “Dog” (variation – pulling on the reins) “She draws up her knees and you clamp yours about her raised thighs. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 69 . For anal penetration be sure to use a condom to protect your wand of light from bacterial infection. “All your holes are mine”. trapping them in a tight knot while riding saddle upon her buttocks and kissing her. when you whisper in her ear. if her passion is already very high. but is perfect © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 70 . The frenulum is that puffy patch of skin just below the corona. The corona is the ring around the glans. Because of the extreme sensitivity of the frenulum. facing away and grasping your feet.” Love Teachings of Kama Sutra. the angle is just right to provide strong stimulation to the frenulum. by Vatsyayana. and this variation in particular.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Opposites – “Backslide” “You lie flat on your back with legs stretched out and your lover sits astride you. the frenulum would be in contact with the testicular sac. this is not a good position if the man usually ejaculates quickly. The glans is the smooth head of the penis. especially for the man. With the lady facing away from you. If the penis were hanging down. translated by Indra Sinha Rear entry positions generally. located on the underside of the penis. build hot sexual energy very rapidly. Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland if the man wants to ejaculate. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 71 . but has trouble doing so in other intercourse positions. This position is excellent when the lingam is small and the yoni is large. she will be able to individually contract each of these rings. going back and forth.” There are rings of muscles going from the opening of the yoni to the cervix at the back of the vaginal canal. If the lady is highly skilled in the art of love. it is known as “riding the elevator”. I am going to milk your goldenrod in such a teasing delightful way that you will beg me for mercy.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Opposites – “See Saw” “Because you have been such a good boy. When the lingam is inside while she performs these wondrous squeezes. It is the best elevator! © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 72 . translated by Indra Sinha One of the most popular positions for a quickie is to bend your lady over the back of a chair or to lean her onto the edge of a table or bed and take her in full ripeness.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Opposites – “Gorilla” – (variation – pulling on the reins) “She bends well forward and grips the bedstead. cup your hands to serpents' hoods and squeeze her jar-shaped breasts together. by Vatsyayana. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 73 .” Love Teachings of Kama Sutra. her buttocks raised high. Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland When the testosterone is raging. it is a rare man who does not fantasize tearing the clothes off his lady. The superior man will not ejaculate when he does this. bending her over and taking her in an instant. to make sure his goddess gets her own satisfaction. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 74 . so that he can continue on in other positions. I need to be inside you now.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Opposites – “Gorilla” (variation – masked) “My lady. I must have you now. I need you soooo bad. I can’t wait another instant.” © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 75 . There are many intercourse positions that honor this condition. facing away. but as the pregnancy enters the last trimester. the fawn-eyed girl offers you her buttocks and your penis penetrates the house of love.” Love Teachings of Kama Sutra.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Tantra & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Other Positions – Pregnancy Lovemaking is perfectly normal. by Vatsyayana. Other Positions – Pregnancy – “The Cradle”(variation – “L”) “Lying on her side. special care must be taken to avoid pressing weight upon the mother’s belly. translated by Indra Sinha © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 76 . and in fact highly desirable during pregnancy. Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland “My darling. as we honor Thee.” © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 77 . this loving energy we create will nourish the new being growing so securely in your womb of life. please bless our child. Dear God and Goddess. the cradle will rock…” This position is excellent when the lingam is large and the yoni is small. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 78 .Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Other Positions – Pregnancy – “The Cradle” (variation II) “Rock-a-bye baby. Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Other Positions – Pregnancy – “The Cradle” (variation) In this position the man can lovingly caress his lady’s breasts and genitals helping her manually to come if she has difficulty reaching orgasm through intercourse alone. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 79 . the man can lovingly caress his lady’s breasts and genitals helping her manually to come if she has difficulty having orgasms through intercourse alone.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Other Positions – Pregnancy – “Happy Capture” (variation – “T”) This position completely respects the need to avoid weight on the pregnant lady’s belly. Also. while allowing for fairly deep penetration. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 80 . as with the previous position. . As your lovemaking goes on. exciting only the first few inches of your penis.. The shallow thrusts stimulate your partner's most sensitive vaginal tissues and at the same time create a vacuum effect that makes her ache for the deep thrust to come. Deep thrusts mean your penis enters as fully as you can. perhaps for hours. and on. With this © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 81 . In this technique you combine a series of nine fairly quick shallow thrusts with one slow deep one. This first couple of inches is the most sensitive part of a woman's vagina. the energy within you and between you and your lover will accumulate to such an intense level that you may spontaneously experience the opening of your higher "spiritual" centers.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Shallow-Deep Thrusting Technique A superb thrusting technique that brings great pleasure to a woman and helps a man to last is a combination of deep and shallow thrusts. And because most of your thrusts are shallow ones.on your partner. and on. your genital muscles -you are going to last a long time. your breath. you're able to rock on for much longer! With your attention fully engaged in this way . By shallow thrusts we mean your penis only enters 11/2 to 2 inches inside your partner. Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland opening comes an experience of ecstasy. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 82 . joy. bliss. This is where mastery of ejaculation can lead you and your satisfied partner. and wonder. on the other hand. every glance of the eyes. and if you are connecting emotionally and energetically. You might consider foreplay to include everything leading up to intercourse. extend lovemaking over a period of hours. Don’t make the error of judgment in believing that foreplay is somehow second best to intercourse.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Foreplay “One of the most wonderful things about latter life lovemaking is that foreplay can last up to a month. It usually takes a woman much longer than a man to come to full sexual arousal. every touch. but also allows for a proper appreciation and honoring of the gender differences between the warriors of love. intense and satisfying as an actual orgasm. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 83 . Tantric lovers. Taking lots of time with foreplay is therefore an important part of Tantric lovemaking. in virtually every country around the planet. Unfortunately lovemaking that finishes in less than thirty minutes may leave the lady frustrated and dissatisfied with her experience. When you are fully present in the now moment. Extending lovemaking not only increases your pleasure.” Loving Life After 60: Celebrating the Autumn of Your Life by Tom Paugh Surveys have shown that typical lovemaking lasts under thirty minutes from start to finish. and every breath is as erotic. Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Conversation with wine One of the most important gender differences between men and women is that generally men open their hearts after sexual intercourse. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 84 . One way to make the emotional connection that will open your hearts is to share flirtatious. playful conversation over a glass of wine. but women are not eager for sexual intercourse until after their hearts are opened. cannabis and other herbal aphrodisiacs to stimulate libido and enhance sexual performance.” Love Teachings of Kama Sutra.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Conversation with wine “No two women make love quite the same way. Beware—moderation is best—more is not necessarily better when it comes to alcohol and drugs. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 85 . translated by Indra Sinha There is a long tradition in Tantric ritual of using wine. by Vatsyayana. so orchestrate your rhythms to the moods and colors of each lover's "raga" (emotions). you are back in the throes of passion again. the natural thing to do is touch your bodies together and dancing is the perfect way to do that. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 86 .Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Dancing Lighten up! Fun. not knowing what to do next during your hours of sacred love play. Then before you know it. It will get you out of your head and into your body. If you ever feel stuck. playful activities such as dancing set a sensuous mood for sacred loving. absorbed in the glorious now moment. And of course it is most highly desirable to extend passionate kissing during and after intercourse. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 87 . It also happens to be many a lady’s favorite foreplay.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Kissing Take note: All men with erectile dysfunction—kissing is one of the fastest. surest ways to arouse a man to a mighty erection. etc. or for dancing. There is an extremely sexy scene in the movie “Don’t Look Now” staring Donald Sutherland and Julie Christie in which the lovers put their clothes on rather than take them off. Clothes suited for a romantic dinner at home for just the two of you would be different from those you might wear giving your lover a massage. We highly recommend that you change outfits several times over hours of Tantric sacred lovemaking.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Undressing Dressing and undressing is one of the most delightful forms of love play. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 88 . Men are generally more visually cued to states of sexual arousal than women. Partial nudity can sometimes be much more exciting than full nudity during foreplay.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Undressing Sexy lingerie is a great delight for the eye of almost any male lover. Don’t be in too big a hurry to get all your clothes off! © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 89 . Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Dressing Up Once you get your clothes off. Be daring and wear each other’s clothes for a change—bring out your hidden feminine and masculine. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 90 . don’t assume you have to keep them off! Be creative and imaginative in your changing of clothes as your love play progresses. A beautiful cloth remnant can be as sexy and alluring as any tailored garment. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 91 . Masks can be extremely erotic. sexually arousing.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Dressing Up Masks add a taste of mystery to your sexy loving time. tantalizing. playful and sometimes dark. you can take off the one you wear every day and explore the depths of your shadows together. When you put on a simple mask. mysterious. creams and lotions. essential oils. massage oils.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Lotions. Apply them while your lover watches or apply them to each other. creams and powders Have available an interesting assortment of perfumes (for men and women)—some with pheromones added. edible lubricants. water and silicone lubricants. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 92 . as well as oil. feet. you start from the outside (hands. In this exercise lovers take turns exploring each other’s bodies. always moving very. from head to toe and everywhere in-between. etc.) and work your way in toward the hot spots (breasts and genitals).Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland More Exotic Practices Loving Body Discovery One of the exercises from our Tantra weekend for couples is the “loving body discovery”. go even slower than that! © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 93 . ears. When you think you are going slow enough. very slowly. When you are exploring. smelling. Of course. nor is it an attempt to build sexual excitement. but that is not your objective. Rather. the idea is to explore “as if for the very first time” touching. and tasting your lover. your lover may become aroused during your exploration. inch by lovely inch.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Loving Body Discovery The loving body discovery is not a massage. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 94 . etc. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 95 . share what new and delightful things you discovered about each other during the exercise.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Loving Body Discovery The loving body exploration can easily last several hours and is something to do many times. sensitivities. lines. scents. Afterwards. textures. your appreciation. not just once. for example—marks. your pleasure. The loving body discovery is a most excellent exercise to help discover the joys of loving without having to get to orgasm. or each glance of the eye. but there is a purpose—union between the lovers. In Tantric sacred loving there is no goal.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Loving Body Discovery One problem that couples report to us in our Tantra workshops is performance anxiety. becoming a focus on getting to orgasm. People quite understandably want to be great lovers. each breath. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 96 . This can rob you of the delights. to be free of the requirement to perform in a certain way. On the contrary. pleasures and beauty of each touch. both the one exploring and the one being explored will discover many new and wondrous things. They want to make something wonderful happen for their partner. Goal orientation may creep in and take over. when they remove orgasm as a goal.” Love Teachings of Kama Sutra.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Loving Body Discovery “Kneeling between her thighs. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 97 . call her 'my lovely darling' and print deep nailmarks around her nipples. Ironically. by Vatsyayana. Here surrender and letting go are much more useful—control does not help at all. control is the enemy of ecstasy. translated by Indra Sinha In the “loving body discovery” exercise. we usually suggest that you do NOT proceed on to intercourse and orgasm. In this way. you can experience what it is like to make love without trying to get anywhere. Remember. many lovers report having lots more orgasms. tickle her breasts and under her arms. without having the possibly frustrating experience of wanting an orgasm but not getting one. Ladies. The loving body discovery is an excellent antidote to the bulls-eye syndrome because you don’t approach the breasts and genitals until well into the exercise. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 98 . We refer to this as the bulls-eye syndrome. Men go quickly for the genitals because they get a great big response there. is that their male lovers go almost immediately for the hot spots— breasts and genitals.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Loving Body Discovery A common complaint we hear from women. bear in mind that men are animals—they can be trained easily! Remember Pavlov’s dogs? The dogs learned to salivate at the sound of the bell once they associated the bell with food as a conditioned response. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 99 . whispering in your ears. give him a big response when he is there. move your body and make appreciative sounds when he is nibbling on your neck.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland If you want your man to stay at another spot on your beautiful body for a long time and to go to that spot early in your lovemaking. For example. or sucking your lovely toes. Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Loving Body Discovery “Catching your penis, the lady with dark eyes like upturned lotus petals guides it into her yoni, clings to you and shakes her buttocks.” Love Teachings of Kama Sutra, by Vatsyayana, translated by Indra Sinha When finally you do reach the hot spots, remember that you are exploring with all of your senses. You are not trying to arouse your partner sexually (although this may well happen). You are not building with the idea of going on to intercourse. You are not trying to make your lover come. You are not trying to get to orgasm. The loving body discovery mercifully lets both of you off the “performance hook”. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 100 Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Loving Body Discovery - Eating Out You may introduce some playfully creative variations into your loving body discovery. Dress your lover up like an ice-cream sundae and dive in for an erotic snack. This gives a whole new meaning to “eating out”. Dessert was never so good. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 101 Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Massage Massage is one of the easiest and surest ways to disconnect from the many demands of a busy life and to connect with your lover. You can give your lover a full-body massage in under 7 minutes. This will get you both out of your heads and into your bodies. Ecstasy in lovemaking is not essentially a mental process; rather it requires that you pay attention to sensory information (sight, taste, touch, smell and kinesthetic sensations), any or all of which will get you into your body, fully present in the now moment. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 102 Be sure not to use this offering of massage in a manipulative way. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 103 . with no expectation of anything in return. but the other is too tired. as a strategy for getting your partner to be interested in sex just because you are. Offer the massage as an unconditional gift. This will sometimes awaken your lover’s sexual energy so that he becomes aroused and able to participate in more active lovemaking.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Massage Any time one of the lovers is keen for lovemaking. try giving your partner a full body massage. scented. leave the world behind. You can also make your own with a light vegetable oil. and add your own essential oils to create a scent you prefer. sunflower. You do not have to have any training to give your mate a thoroughly satisfying massage. such as safflower.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Massage Tips Massages are easy to do as well as fun to give and receive. Both partners are able to relax. couch—but most comfortable for the masseur is a table at about hip height. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 104 . The market is flooded with wondrous lubricants—flavored. and be in the moment together. With massage. A man whose body is relaxed so that his energy can flow more freely is able to last much longer. You can perform massages just about anywhere—bed. If the kitchen or dining rooms do not afford you as much privacy as you would like. a foam mat or even an air mattress on top covered by a sheet. edible. although if you would like more guidance there are some excellent books and videos available. It is not likely you have a portable massage table at home. tingling—take your pick. but you do have a kitchen or dining table. jojoba. or canola-grape seed. With firm cushions. a woman’s body begins to awaken for arousal—her erotic side receives the time and attention she needs to “get in the mood”. floor. or a wet one—with oil. move the table into your bedroom. unscented. they make great massage surfaces. Giving each other a massage as a first course of sexual play adds to your entire experience. warming. Give a dry massage—without oil. and lightly spicy recipe. Feathering—very light fingertip strokes—primarily for erotic massage. buttocks and thighs. the arousal of skin to skin contact. gently rock back and forth. 4 oz.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland This is Al’s refreshing. especially at joints. Massage Strokes If you are unsure how to begin to give a massage there are a few simple strokes you can learn to master easily. for the massage oil we supply in our lover’s kits at our Tantra weekends. firm strokes following the line of muscle up and down his body. or a particular part of it. Rocking. • • © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 105 . her buttocks for example. canola oil (or substitute as above) 4 drops YlangYlang essential oil 1-2 drops Black Pepper essential oil (1 in summer. then letting go and repeating—particularly in large muscle groups like shoulders. Kneading—slowly and firmly squeezing muscle between fingers and palms of your hands. Circular motions. smooth. • • • Long. back. 2 in winter) 1-2 drops Clary Sage essential oil (1 in winter. 2 in summer) Whichever products you choose for general body massage it is best to use water-based lubricants for massaging a woman’s genitals. Other lubricants may clog her pores and encourage vaginal infection. with one hand on either side of your partner’s body. There are some excellent massage videos you can learn from. Starting your massage An excellent starting point for a relaxing and invigorating massage is the back. • Slide your hands down the outer sides of his back. • Inhale. eyes (very softly). • Do it again and again and revel in his sighs of pleasure. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 106 . Ask your partner to tell you if she would like more intensity as you go. whenever you are receiving a massage communicate your desires and sensations with loving requests and appreciative sounds—give your masseur informative and thankful feedback. follow the line of his shoulders out from his neck. The more massages you give each other the easier it will become to know what is needed through the messages your hands give you. If you are giving your lover a full body massage. • Move on to his buttocks or shoulders or neck or arms— wherever your hands feel compelled to go. • Begin at the base of his spine with your palms on his sacrum (just above his tailbone). • With a firm touch. fingers—not just the major sections like legs and back. coming to rest again at the base of his spine. make sure to cover every part of his body—ears. toes.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland You cannot go wrong by starting out with slow. Nevertheless. gentle pressure in your strokes. His whole body has skin hunger. • As you exhale slide your hands up his back on either side of his spine. Using light. up her feet. stopping just short of her genitals. Working in the opposite direction—starting at her fee and finishing at her head with most of your strokes going up her body—can be extraordinarily enlivening as energy builds and moves upwards. To start or end your day. As a refreshing pause from strenuous sexual activity. on tantalizing skin-to-skin contact that becomes increasingly sexual as the massage continues. or her fingers to palms to inner elbows to armpits and almost to her nipples. for example from her toes. but you can also give your lover a boost with a massage “quickie”. with most of your strokes in a downward motion—is generally relaxing. You can effectively energize and loosen him up from top to toe in five to seven minutes. as her body © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 107 . although not exclusively. Only slowly. Erotic Massage Primarily for arousal. Up and Down Working a massage from the top to the bottom—starting at her head and shoulders and finishing at her feet. to calves and thighs. draining tension away and down. Try this in various situations: • • • Near the beginning of your sacred loving time. feathery touches begin moving inwards from the extremities of your lover’s body.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Massage Variations Seven Minute Massage It is a delicious treat to receive a full body massage that lasts any where from thirty minutes to a couple of hours. erotic massage focuses. With erotic massage you may use not only your hands but also your tongue. A simple blindfold will add a note of mystery to any erotic massage. lips. some are more for relaxation and energetic revival. hair or other exotic aids like feathers and even ice cubes. Not all massages are equal.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland awakens under your teasing touch do you move on to actually caress her hot sexual spots. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 108 . while others can be particularly erotic building high states of passion and sexual excitement. Add more spice with a blindfold or by loosely binding your lover’s wrists and ankles to the bed corners so she is at your tender mercy. hot oil. and sensations. silk cloth. While your lover is blindfolded. Appeal to all five senses in your tantalizing play.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Erotic Massage A teasing. entice him with mysterious sounds. as exciting and satisfying for the giver as the receiver. scents. erotic massage is a wonderful gift to each other. and parts of yourself. ice cubes. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 109 . of course. Touch him all over with feathers. sensual. In the sexual fire breath you use a combination of sound.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Sexual Fire Breath The sexual fire breath is one of the best exercises. visualization and hand movements. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 110 . pelvic rocking. especially with a partner (but you can also do it alone). helping to open all of your chakra centers. deep abdominal breathing. PC (pubococcygeous) muscle squeezes. for rapidly building a hot sexual charge and moving it up through your body. Do it as a charger-upper before making love. Do it during intercourse. Do it during lovemaking as you are being manually or orally stimulated. If “energy” is very subtle for you and you don’t usually feel it. Most report really feeling something the very first time they do the sexual fire breath. Use the sexual fire breath on your own to open yourself to your full exquisite sexual potential. try this exercise. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 111 . Apertio: Tantra Energy Meditations.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Sexual Fire Breath The sexual fire breath is one of the meditations on Pala Copeland’s CD. but be very observant and ready to stop in a flash in the early learning stages or the man may go beyond his point of no return to ejaculate before you are both ready to end the lovemaking. with lyrics and voice by Pala Copeland. and music by Jeff Davies. Exhale as you rock forward. Begin to breathe slowly and deeply into your belly. Do not leave it to build up in your head. When you have a comfortable breathing rhythm established.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Sexual Fire Breath • • • • Lie on your back. your kiss. one chakra at a time. Inhale as you rock back. Use your feet to slightly push off the floor so that you are not using your abdominal muscles to rock and they can remain loose and open. your breath. Make sound as you exhale – AAAAAHHHH. • • • • • © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 112 . Send the energy out through your crown chakra into the universe. (Note: your body might want to do it the opposite way. Feet flat on the floor/bed. let it. Focus your attention on your genitals and visualize drawing breath in and out through them. tilting it up toward the sky. Begin to visualize your sexual energy as a great ball of golden fire in your genitals. palms up.). you can also pass the energy to him through your eyes. Knees bent. Legs comfortably apart. If you are making love with a partner. When you are in a comfortable rhythm. Tighten your PC muscles as you rock back. Hands at your sides. sound carries the energy). add PC Pumping. (Note: some bodies want to do it the opposite way – listen to yours and go with what feels right). Relax them as you rock forward. begin to rock your pelvis. (This is the most difficult part for many people but it helps enormously. Eyes closed. breathe and pump draw the golden fireball up through your chakra centers. As you rock. Breathe more rapidly to move the energy higher within your body. If you have left a store of energy in your head and feel some congestion there do Grounding and apply firm pressure with your fingertips to your crown chakra. allowing yourself to open into its flow. Rest in stillness for a few moments when you are finished practicing so that the energy can continue to flow through you.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland • • • • • Pass your hands in flowing motions up your body to help with the energy movement. Bring it back down and store it in your belly chakra for later use. When you reach a high edge of energetic arousal you can maintain this level by deepening and slowing your breathing and keeping your body relaxed. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 113 . Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland BDSM Play One of the most common fantasies for men and women is to be blindfolded and tied up. If you find your lovemaking has become predictable or routine. Milder forms of BDSM (bondage/discipline/sadism/masochism) play are entering into the bedrooms of the nation as cultural taboos against the healthy exploration of sexuality among consenting adults drops away. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 114 . spice it up with a touch of BDSM play. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 115 .Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Torture Teasing Playful “torture” can lead to extraordinary orgasms. Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Blindfolds and tie-ups Blindfolds and tie-ups are two of the most common forms of light BDSM sexual play. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 116 . energetic and spiritual connections can be deep and profound. so that they can surrender themselves utterly. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 117 . the emotional.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Sweet surrender my darling Many lovers report that their BDSM explorations taught them a great deal about trust. becoming completely open and vulnerable. When this is done within a cocoon of love. Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Dark Stranger “Grasping the ankles of the round-hipped woman. whose buttocks are like two ripe gourds.” © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 118 . raise her beautiful thighs and spread the thighjoints widely. have your way with me.” Love Teachings of Kama Sutra. by Vatsyayana. Your command is my wish. translated by Indra Sinha “Yes master. BDSM can include overt domination. she bends. Modern Tantric lovers are experimenting with BDSM play within a context of trust. submission. love. placing a hand upon each thigh. by Vatsyayana. cruelty and pain. In the darkest corners of the shadow. and you take her from the rear…” Love Teachings of Kama Sutra. and a willingness to explore mysteries of the shadow. surrender. but for most Tantric lovers these aspects are not present. will you promise to spank me master?” There is a great deal of misinformation and misunderstanding about what BDSM is and what it means. translated by Indra Sinha “If I’m a bad girl.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Paddle Play “With lotus-feet set well-apart on the ground. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 119 . Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Dominatrix “My darling. You are going to like this!” © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 120 . you are now at my mercy. You must obey my commands. Of course the punishment must fit the crime. Do exactly as I tell you or face your deserved punishment. Medicine.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Golden Showers Many men become extremely aroused when their goddess delivers warm golden urine or honey cum onto their body. lap and love it! Recommended Reading Biological Transmutations and their applications in: Chemistry. Geology. Physics. Perhaps a perfect punishment for disobeying your commands could be to female ejaculate onto his eager face while he dines between your luscious silken thighs at your gate to heaven. Biology. Gentlemen. Ecology. lick. Nutrition. Kervran “Biological transmutation is the process through which a live organism. activates nuclear reactions that lead to © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 121 . in certain conditions. by Louis C. Agronomy. So this energy is huge and it remains in our body on different levels. in men's case and sexual fluids in women's case. giving us multiple advantages. Sperm. Biological transmutation releases slowly significant quantities of energy. This takes place inside the body. can be transformed into energy.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland the transformation of a chemical element in another chemical element.” © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 122 . You must always use the proper form of address when speaking to me.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Here is a list of rules from a dominatrix web site. When you sit. Here are some products frequently used in light BDSM play. You must always have your legs open so you will be totally exposed every time I look at you. ticklers. 7. You must always ask permission before you do or say anything. If I think you are unable to perform my request. If you fail to do this you will be disciplined. No matter how uncomfortable or embarrassed you may feel. Your "Safe Word" is "RED". You are never to say "No" to me when I tell you to do something. 6. You will say. you must never cross your legs or keep your knees together. whips. paddles. such as restraints. "Mistress. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 123 . I will ask you to stop. and blindfolds. A SESSION begins with you undressing. may I speak?" 5. The fastening of a black leather collar around your neck will mark the beginning of the session. Do not hesitate to use this word if you find yourself in an unbearable situation. 2. 3. 1. you will be punished. If I have to ask for it. I will stop everything and we will talk. and you handing me my tribute. PERIOD! 4. Black latex flog. Leather wrist restraints. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 124 . Dog collar Leather Paddle 2 tie-off straps/leash Blindfold MEO from Germany has an extensive collection of BDSM accessories for those who are interested in something a little more hard-core.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Beginner BDSM Kit • • • • • • • • Complete kit for amateur slave and master. Includes instructional video. In this way the lovers may graduate from ordinary friction sex (in which bodies rub together for pleasure) to energy sex (in which there is a deep emotional and energetic connection). and ultimately if love is present to the complete union of soul sex. Creating a sacred space for loving is one of the best ways of signaling to your deepest / highest consciousness that your intention is to elevate lovemaking to an art and a sacrament. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 125 . It is primarily through ceremony and ritual that we communicate with our souls.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Sacred Space Holy Ground What is the difference between “sex” and “sacred sex”? Essentially. the difference is your attitude and intention. However attractive your lovemaking space is when you start. bringing in special objects that have emotional or spiritual significance for both of you such as photographs or gifts you have given each other previously. to celebrate His love and blessings and to the Goddess for the great abundance that surrounds you. In sacred loving each of you brings to it your absolute best. and each of you looks for and expects to find the best in your partner. simultaneously flawed and wonderful. changing the lighting with lots of candles. draping beautiful pieces of cloth over hard edges. and yet we are at once god and goddess. selecting the perfect music. You offer your lovemaking to God as a way to honor Him. You treat each other as the god and goddess you actually are. take 10-15 minutes to transform it by adding fresh flowers or plants. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 126 .Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Honoring the God and Goddess We are all ordinary human beings. Place candles around the bathing area. put fresh or dried flower petals in the water.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Sacred Bathing Merging in the ocean of consciousness One perfect way to begin a sacred loving time is to bathe together. use bath salts. essential oils and fine herbal soaps. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 127 . Ph. bringing your full conscious attention into the present moment for ecstatic lovemaking. and passionately. Transitions. Focus on transcending the cares of the world.D. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 128 . Recommended Reading: Sacred Ceremony: How to Create Ceremonies for Healing. gently. and Celebrations by Steven D. Farmer.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Washing away cares of the world Wash each other’s hair and cleanse each other’s bodies— kindly. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 129 . in the bath as well as at other times.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Serving one another Serve one another with adoring random acts of loving kindness. translated by Indra Sinha Oral loving is a classic way for lovers to serve up pleasure. by Vatsyayana.” Love Teachings of Kama Sutra. aren’t you a better person when you regularly experience pleasure? Aren’t you nicer to be around and easier to get along with? Don’t you like yourself better when you are regularly experiencing pleasure? © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 130 . Really. and kiss each other's secret parts. facing opposite ways.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Oral Sex “69” “The pair of you lie side by side. her humble.” Dr. goddess ambrosia—peaches. wetback. Susan Block Eating cotton candy “Ah. cotton candy—can I please keep my face here forever my love?” © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 131 . ripe mango.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Oral Sex Cunnilingus “When you give really good head. resourceful. you are entering the Temple of the Goddess as her Servant. clitsuckin’ servant. eager to please. asslickin’. by Vatsyayana. indeed cleave asunder. lips and chin slowly circling. Even though the vasometer is located in the nose.” Love Teachings of Kama Sutra. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 132 . with your nose. An organ called the “vasometer” located in the nasal passage detects pheromones. Both males and females produce pheromones. pheromones are not scents in the same way a perfume is a scent. but many perfumes now have pheromones added. Men are chemically programmed to want to have their face at your pleasure-treasure cove! Pheromones are the chemical sexual attractants produced by animals to allure the opposite sex to mate. translated by Indra Sinha Sweet copulins pheromones are only produced in the vaginal canal. A man or woman who wears them is reportedly irresistible to the opposite sex. that archway with your nose and let your tongue gently probe her yoni.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Sweet copulins pheromones “Now spread. to love it. your beloved. translated by Indra Sinha Many women are under the mistaken assumption that men want a woman with a perfect “10” body. This is a simple error of judgment that is cause for much suffering in women.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Clitoral Kissing “Next. nibbling at her and sucking hard at her clitoris. regardless of her body style. whatever that might be. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 133 . Let your tongue rest for a moment in the archway to the flower-bowed Lord's temple before entering to worship vigorously. and some of the most selfdestructive behaviors such as eating disorders like anorexia and bulimia. fasten your lips to hers and take deep kisses from this lovely one. What most men actually want is a woman to completely surrender to her passion in active lovemaking. This is the single greatest turn-on for almost every male lover. Men find such a woman completely irresistible. to want it.” Love Teachings of Kama Sutra. by Vatsyayana. and to enjoy herself completely without shame or guilt. causing her seed to flow. Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Oral Sex Fellatio Please sir may I have more? “She takes the head of your penis gently between her lips. This important gender difference between men and women is the reason why we advise lovers NOT to © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 134 . Women on the other hand.” Love Teachings of Kama Sutra. by turns pressing. by Vatsyayana. generally prefer not to have their breasts and genitals touched until after they are already sexually aroused. kissing it tenderly and pulling at its soft skin. translated by Indra Sinha Many men enjoy having their genitals touched at any time and find that it leads to an instant erection. sexually hungry woman. beware of frightening him with your voracious sucking hunger of lusty passion. when you do take him into your luscious mouth. gentler build-up of sexual arousal before there is any touching or sucking of that gorgeous stalk of jade. They long for them. in intercourse and fellatio. but in ordinary lovemaking it is extremely frustrating and downright embarrassing. and can never seem to get too many. dream about them. unzip his pants and suck him off fast and furious. but at the same time they may fear the very thing they desire. This fantasy is even juicier if it involves a woman he does not already know and happens in some public place such as at a cocktail party. A man may also have a subconscious fear of being devoured by an insatiable.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland follow the Golden Rule—don’t do unto your lover what you want done unto you. fellatio can bring them to ejaculation very quickly. with the whole episode being concluded in a matter of minutes. it is much better for both of you if you use a slower. If your man is one who tends to come very quickly. So ladies. this is not a problem. For one thing. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 135 . The lovely lady then simply disappears and he never sees her again—no strings and no complications! Men are full of contradictions when it comes to blowjobs. because they are different things! One of the most common fantasies for a man is to have a beautiful sexy woman approach him. Part of the Dracula myth is based upon man’s fear of being sucked dry out the end of his cock. then without speaking. with many men. exploring with pouty lips and probing tongue. In the fantasy scenario above. wet-dream about them. very tantalizing. and as soon as he is showing a stage four. is that you must change what you are doing frequently. deserves. very playful sucking that lasts on and on and on for a very long time. The way to be sure that he does not come too quickly. as opposed to the fantasy of instant-fast-furious-fellatio.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland In a more ordinary lovemaking situation. allow that erection to subside or he may ejaculate and in that way reject the very pleasure he really wants. what your man is probably most desirous of is a very slow. very seductive. bone-hard erection. and nice guy that he is. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 136 . sucking and working upon it with lips and tongue until you spend. translated by Indra Sinha © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 137 . When she senses that your orgasm is imminent she swallows up the whole penis.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Treat with trust “Fired by passion. pulling upon it and sucking as vigorously as though she were stripping clean a mango-stone. she takes your penis deep into her mouth.” Love Teachings of Kama Sutra. by Vatsyayana. Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Watching Eye Candy Visually. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 138 . one of the most erotic things is to watch your lover masturbate in complete lusty sexual abandon. resulting in a kaleidoscope of exotic colors as her squirting juicy nectar diffuses and refracts the rays of light. extraordinary treat is to see her ejaculate with the sunshine streaming in through a window (or if you are lying outside). A rare. This requires surrender. in Tantric sacred loving. You can’t get what you want if your lover does not know what that is. the lead is smoothly passed from one to the other. What better way to communicate your lusty desires than to show her how you want to be touched. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 139 . being the doer and giver. a challenging but essential skill for all great male lovers. But. requiring that both are equally skilled at giving and receiving pleasure.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Show me what you like We encourage lovers to ask for what they want. by touching yourself as she watches adoringly. being in charge. Many men are more comfortable being the initiator. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 140 . This is a perfect opportunity for the lady to show her man how she likes to be touched. her “love button”. but then rolling along for quite some time).Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Carry on while I take a rest Men are like fire (heating up and burning out quickly). the lady may “finish off what was started” as he holds her lovingly. If the man has ejaculated and lost his erection. it may be desirable for the man to take a rest during extended lovemaking. while women are like water (slowly coming to a boil. whose only purpose is pleasure. and how she comes with manual stimulation of her clitoris. Or. before returning to active intercourse. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 141 . tighten your anus or perineum. show the observant goddess how you can lift your testicles. Perhaps she prefers that you come onto her body or into her luscious mouth to end the session. If you have mastered contracting one muscle at a time while holding all the others completely relaxed. Ask your lady what is her fancy. put on an erotic performance for your lady. Dare to give her a sexy strip tease and exotic dance.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland I get all wet watching you please yourself Men. bob your penis. while she cheers you on with appreciative exclamations of delight. Culminate with a masturbation ceremony. and respected. Staying emotionally and energetically connected after lovemaking makes your lady feel safe. When the ordinary man ends lovemaking with an involuntary ejaculation. secure.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Afterplay In the glow… What happens after lovemaking is as important as what happens during lovemaking. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 142 . both lovers can feel cheated and disappointed. The male typically wants to roll over and go to sleep or get up and immediately return to some “important” project he is working on. It may be this emotional distance that is most disturbing to females rather than premature ejaculation. loved. adored. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 143 . kissing and beautiful words of adoration and appreciation for the gifts you have bestowed upon each other.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Thank you my darling For most women a deep emotional and energetic connection is far more important than having lots of orgasms (but lots of orgasms are very nice too!). This is the time for gentle hugging. The superior male lover makes himself emotionally available after lovemaking. Be imaginative. all good things. breathing in harmony. into each other and out to merge with the Divine consciousness. Experiment and play with any or all of the positions illustrated in this manual. be bold. Use squeezing of your genital muscles. never counting the cost. sometimes without breaking the contact of sexual intercourse. and running hands up your bodies to help the energy move up through your chakra centers. Over the course of several hours of lovemaking. go where you never thought you would dare. Nine peaks of arousal and energy circulation are considered particularly fortuitous in the Eastern view. When you find those that suit both of you. establish a rhythm of active postures for increasing arousal followed by very slow or still poses where your focus is on moving the energy you have fired up. circulate again and so on in a series of peaks.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Summary and Conclusions Choreograph your own sacred loving sequences in the art of love. explore moving seamlessly from one position to another. Al Link and Pala Copeland © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 144 . then build again. visualizing energy rising. love one another. Most of all. Kama Sutra. Ananga Ranga and Perfumed Garden. excite. and entertain.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Classic Love Texts Kama Sutra Kama Sutra Online Resources Tantra Magazine They offer a wealth of information about sexual lovemaking positions drawn from the Kama Sutra. and extracts from. by Linda Sonntag A fresh and easy-to-use guide based on the most renowned ancient text on sexual pleasures and techniques. Sir Richard Burton (Translator) FREE online version offered by Tantra Magazine Kama Sutra Books The Bedside Kama Sutra: 23 Positions for Pleasure and Passion. this sensual compendium covers 23 sexual positions designed to educate. the original Kama Sutra © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 145 . Included in this voluptuous volume are: •Over 180 full-color erotic photographs •Over 30 reproductions of classic erotic art from the East •Step-by-step instructions for 23 erotic positions •Commentary on. Combining stunning erotic photography with classic erotic art from the East. by Mallanaga Vatsyayana. the Kama Sutra . composed by Vatsyayana in the fourth century. and even violent. As Devadatta Shastri says in his commentary: "At the moment when the peak of bliss is attained.com) Library Journal Long dismissed as a sort of Sanskrit Joy of Sex . --Brian Bruya (review on Amazon. Arguing that happiness and moral duty ( dharma ) depend on elaborate social ritual to satisfy the essential needs of life. the Kama Sutra is a guide to the labyrinth of sexual etiquette. that the work is an overview of all sexual practices. the Kama Sutra describes the practices. the text is dated and culture bound in places. the internal and external world vanish. explores sexuality as an integral part of human existence. Alain Danielou (Translator) The galaxy of pleasures in Alain Daniélou's translation of the Kama Sutra takes you back to an India where sexuality was an integral part of life and an avenue to spiritual bliss. The man and woman cease to be separate entities and lose themselves in the beatitudes of being. Admittedly. The First Unabridged Modern Translation of the Classic Indian Text [UNABRIDGED]. by Mallanaga Vatsyayana. Take from this encyclopedia of amour what you will and let it keep you moving down the path of spiritual practice. More than just a pillow book. from how to bathe before meeting a lover to how lovers should entertain each other after making love.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland The Complete Kama Sutra. much of which is excluded in other versions. bizarre. some of which are not recommended. The commentators are careful to point out. rituals. however. and © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 146 . but two essential commentaries as well." Daniélou's elegant rendering includes not only the entire sutra. it can be chauvinistic. Armstrong State Coll. both heterosexual and homosexual. a world of refined sensation totally without humbug.L. Noted Indiologist Danielou provides a fluent and literal translation of the entire Sanskrit original with interpolated extracts from the 12thcentury commentary by Yashodara and the modern Hindi commentary by Devadatta Shastri. Our debt to his scholarship and humanity is immeasurable. Our debt to his scholarship and humanity is immeasurable. there's a new translation of the oldest sex manual. Savannah.. Times Literary Supplement Danilou's new and complete translation of the Kama Sutra is one of his masterpieces.T. Ga. . But now. The Times Literary Supplement Danielou's new and complete translation of the Kama Sutra is one of his masterpieces.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland lore of the erotic ( kama ) in human relations. Cooksey. It is all enchantment. a world of refined sensation totally without humbug. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 147 .' No wonder we couldn't follow any of the instructions in the Kama Sutra. This is an important advance over Burton's Victorian abridgment. It is all enchantment. The Guardian Weekend Dildo was translated as 'medicine.' Lesbian was just 'corrupt woman. the first since the Victorians brought it home and hid it under the mattress. vivid. novelistic narrative of seduction. and sexual © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 148 . of course. sexually frank English. and inaccurate nineteenth-century translation by Sir Richard Burton. and disentanglement. the literary language of ancient India.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland Kama Sutra (Oxford World’s Classics). using drugs--and also. about the many and varied positions available to lovers in sexual intercourse and the pleasures to be derived from each. It is about the art of living—about finding a partner. and sets it in the context of ancient Indian social theory. Wendy Doniger and Sudhir Kakar (Translators) The Kamasutra is the oldest extant textbook of erotic love. It combines an encyclopedic coverage of all imaginable aspects of sex with a closely observed sexual psychology and a dramatic. This edition also includes a section of vivid Indian color illustrations along with three uniquely important commentaries: translated excerpts from the earliest and most famous Sanskrit commentary (thirteenth century) and from a twentieth-century Hindi commentary. consummation. The Kamasutra was composed in Sanskrit. living as or with a courtesan. analyses its attitudes toward gender and sexual violence. But it is more than a book about sex. probably in North India. one of the world's foremost Sanskrit scholars. maintaining power in a marriage. padded. discusses the history of The Kamasutra and its reception in India and Europe. the text is newly translated here into clear. by Mallanaga Vatsyayana. sometime in the third century. and explanatory notes by the two translators. Best known in English through the highly mannered. scientific method. committing adultery. The lively and entertaining introduction by translator Wendy Doniger. These erotic treatises are not sex manuals in the modern sense clinical collections of coital postures but a broader and more humane exploration of Eastern sexual customs. As an expression of human culture. thoughtprovoking and occasionally even amusing. whose life has recently been © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 149 . and in particular Indian. and Sheikh Nefzawi's Perfumed Garden. The first Kama Sutra to be illustrated in color with a dazzling and unique collection of Indian painting and sculpture. and humor.""--Salon. by Mallanaga Vatsyayana. Sexual frankness without a hint of guilt or prurience is the great legacy which the Eastern. set forth the principles of sensual pleasure with poetry. Sheikh Nefzawi. the Kama Sutra of Vatsyayana the most famous work on sex ever written. celebrating love as an ecstatic expression of life's beauty. Sir Richard Burton's translations of the classic Eastern love texts have been published in one volume.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland ethics. Richard Francis Burton (Translator) Here. wisdom.com The Illustrated Kama Sutra : Ananga-Ranga and Perfumed Garden . and as a pillow book for the modern boudoir. for the first time. Kalyana Malla. About the Author Sir Richard F.The Classic Eastern Love Texts. ""[This] new translation is fascinating. traditions have given us. the Ananga-Ranga of Kalyana Malla. Burton (1821-1890) was one of the greatest traveler-explorers of history. The present work is an entirely new translation. Kama Sutra of Vatsyayana (Illustrated Edition) [DOWNLOAD: MICROSOFT READER] by Mallanaga Vatsyayana. He analyses. Burton also searched for the headwaters of the Nile. he was one of the most remarkable and controversial men of his century. a public which. © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 150 . made for a modern public. Ananga Ranga and Other Famous Indian Works on Love. and member of the Royal Geographic Society. with Vatsyayana.Tantric & Kama Sutra Sex Positions Al Link and Pala Copeland chronicled both in biography (Captain Sir Richard Burton) and film (Mountains of the Moon). with the detached wisdom of old age. Orientalist. written in about the fourth century AD by the mysterious sage Vatsyayana. from the sexual positions to the arrangement of furniture and the role of a go-between. His dry wit. and was the discoverer of the central lakes of Africa. charm and vivid language combine to give the book a relevance far beyond the perfumed world of ancient India that it describes. and create of it a humane masterpiece that contains no hint of obscenity. the possibilities of lovemaking from the first approaches to the consummation. by Mallanaga Vatsyayana. Kama Sutra has only been known in the English language in a nineteenth-century translation by Sir Richard Burton. Richard Francis Burton (Translator) The Love Teachings of Kama Sutra: With Extracts from Koka Shastra. Indra Sinha (Translator) Kama Sutra is the world's classic study of the arts of love. prolific author. Famous as the translator of The 1001 Arabian Nights. In this new translation.The Sensual Art of Lovemaking (Positions of the Perfumed Garden/Positions of the Tao) DVD © 4Freedoms Relationship Tantra 2003 151 . 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